By Judy Wallace       It was the first thing we saw as we entered the lodge we had rented for the week. The plaque was front and center, emblazoned with the words “Follow Your Heart.” My son-in-law stopped then and there to pull his daughters aside and explain, “No, we do not follow our hearts.”       Under the heading were some other little niceties — “enjoy the little things, discover your passion, be spontaneous, dream big, believe in yourself.” All had the humanistic twist that ...